When you think about your purpose, you may think it’s directly linked to what you’re genuinely passionate about or naturally good at. You may also believe your purpose automatically leads to income. However, when we look at the word’s definition and understand its meaning, we can know that it is bigger than our desire to pursue careers in fields we have confidence in or build businesses off of gifts and talents.
purpose
/ˈpəːpəs/
noun
- the reason for which something is done or created or for which something exists.
Our purpose is to worship God, which may look different year-to-year, month-to-month or day-to-day. So if we decide to pitch a tent and stay in a season where God calls us to move somewhere else, we are no longer operating from a place of purpose. Understanding this helps us know that purpose is not tied to a career, location, skill or talent – but instead is anchored to God and His will.
When we yield to the Holy Spirit and avail ourselves to be of service to God, we are walking in purpose because God orders our steps.
The Lord guides us in the way we should go
and protects those who please him.
Psalm 37:23
In addition, when we walk in purpose, even though we may make errors along the way, His protection is on us.
If they fall, they will not stay down,
because the Lord will help them up.
Psalm 37:24
Now we know what purpose is, let’s look at how to avoid traps, dispel some false beliefs and things to watch out for on the journey of pursuing purpose.
1.) Purpose is NOT about you
- Purpose is not about you experiencing a life with no challenges.
- Our ultimate purpose is to love (worship) God, love others, and make disciples. So no matter our career path or natural talents, this is our ultimate purpose. (Matthew 22:37)
Tip to avoid this pitfall: Remember we are to pick up our cross and follow Christ daily. (Luke 9:23) knowing that Christ has given you life more abundantly. (John 10:10)
2.) Thinking your purpose has to be your job.
Our purpose does not have to earn us money (it’s okay if it does), but it does not have to amount to our day job. After all, we are encouraged to work (this is also an act of worship) and not be lazy. So don’t feel guilty if your job role differs from the calling on your life or if you earn from it.
Tip to avoid this pitfall: Don’t force a career or likewise avoid a job just because it does or does not fall neatly in with your purpose. Talk to God about your plans, and He will guide you. (Proverbs 16:3)
3.) Thinking your purpose is what others think you should do
It’s easy to have your ego and confidence boosted when receiving the applaud, approval, and encouragement of those around you. But it’s vital to listen to the voice of God over the opinions and co-signs of man. Maybe someone has spoken a word of prophecy to you? Seen a vision or believes you’re good at something, so you should pursue it further. However, if we are not mindful of weighing prophetic words, visions and discerning advice, we risk being directed into an unfulfilled life.
Tip to avoid this pitfall: Check your motivations and ask yourself why you are doing what you are doing? Is it something God has asked of you, or is it because others want you to do it?
Many are the plans in the mind of a man, but it is the purpose of the LORD that will stand.
Proverbs 19:21
4.) Burnout by not walking in your purpose
You may be spending time being productive and getting through your to-do lists like a pro, but it doesn’t contribute to your purpose. Of course, there are times when work is a tool to fulfil our divine goals in any given season, but a time may arrive when you need to consider if what you are doing is in line with the season of your current purpose. It may have been an effective contributor in the past, but maybe God is calling you to something new?
Tip to avoid this pitfall: Partner with God daily. Pray for the ability to discern the times and seasons you are in so that you don’t miss opportunities. (Read Ecclesiastes 3)
5.) Burnout from being committed to purpose to the point of self-neglect.
This can happen when you are obsessed with purpose, with no boundaries, and everything else in life is forsaken. This point may be more relatable to those who run businesses or work in ministry. It’s easy to make excuses for not refuelling or taking sufficient care of ourselves or family because ‘I am serving God’, but in doing so, you end up going against scripture that encourages rest.
Tips to avoid this pitfall:
- Set work and ministry boundaries and schedule out time to rest.
- If the demand for your business is too high, consider expanding your team or outsourcing help.
- Speak with church leaders to see if there is a way to allow you to recoup; after all, no one can pour from an empty cup.
It is in vain that you rise up early and go late to rest, eating the bread of anxious toil; for he gives to his beloved sleep.
Psalm 127:2
Do you see yourself operating in any of the above places or mindsets where it concerns purpose? What are some pitfalls you think should also be avoided?
Words by Dara Olagbami
